Tracey A. (Totman) Wagner

  • Born: August 28, 1974
  • Died: October 19, 2019
  • Location: Stoughton, Massachusetts

Farley Funeral Home

358 Park Street
Stoughton, MA 02072

Tel. (781) 344-2676

Tribute & Message From The Family

Message From The Family

Thank you for your support during this difficult time. Please enhance this tribute to Tracey by adding your memories and photos.

Tracey A. (Totman) Wagner, 45, a lifelong resident of Stoughton, died unexpectedly at home on Saturday, October 19, 2019. She was the wife of 12 years of James M. Wagner. Daughter of Christopher "Duke" and Cynthia A. "Cindy" (Ryder) Totman of Stoughton, she was born in Brockton and educated in Stoughton schools. Tracey was a graduate of Stoughton High School, Class of 1992 and Simmons College, Class of 1998. Always a hard worker, she worked 4 jobs to help pay for college. After graduating, she worked at Putnam Investments for over 20 years. She was active in the 4H Club and competed in many horse shows. Tracey and Jim loved to entertain and cook for family and friends at their home, both poolside and fireside. She loved going to Crowes Pasture Beach in Dennis with her family. Her greatest joy was spending time with her family.

In addition to her husband and parents, Tracey is survived by her loving children, Cole J. Wagner, Delaney B. Wagner and Cheyanne C. Wagner all of Stoughton. She was the daughter-in-law of Betty Wagner and the late Bob Wagner, Retired SPD. She was the sister-in-law of Lisa Burke and her husband Matt and Elizabeth Pietro and her husband Dan. She is also survived by many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews and dear friends.

Funeral Prayers will be offered from the Farley Funeral Home, 358 Park St., (Rte. 27) Stoughton on Saturday, October 26 at 12 PM. Visiting Hours prior from 9 AM – 12 PM. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations in Tracey's memory may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105.


Condolence & Memory Journal

Tracey - I think of you all the time. So many songs that remind me of summers in the boat, setting off fireworks at my house... me, you, Jodi & Suzanne. We have so many incredible memories. We never got to do the boat reunion... that would’ve meant so much to all of us. My love to your beautiful family. I know you’re proud of those amazing children! Love you lots !!! Ran

Posted by Randie Zimmerman - Ormond Beach, FL - friend   October 13, 2020

mom this was the most hardest thing for me you were my whole world you made me smile laugh. Hows heaven . hope you are proud of me

Posted by cheyanne wagner - stoughton, MA - Daughter   February 10, 2020

sorry for your loss duke and family it has to be hard michael jacobs jake

Posted by michael jacobs - phx, AZ - Friend   January 13, 2020

Dear mom,i love you and miss you so much you where my best friend and your the one who helped me through so much.i miss you mommy rest in peace

Posted by Delaney Wagner - Stoughton, MA - Daughter   November 24, 2019

Tracey, I'll never forget you and how much I looked up to you during the years of living across the street from one another. You really were my idol. Me being younger than you I can recall all the sleepovers you'd have during summer vacations and I was not aloud to join since I was too young. I sat outside listen to you and your friends having so much fun, only wishing to be a part of it. I'm saddened to hear of your passing, esp with me never being able to tell you that.
Cindy & Duke My heart is broken for the both of you. Thoughts are sent your way. Xo Tracey please rest easy darling.

Posted by Kimberly Gusciora - North Easton, MA - Family Friend   November 14, 2019

Very sorry for the entire family. My deepest condolences.

Posted by Chris Landry - Whitman, MA - Family Friend   November 04, 2019

Jimmy, Betty and family
Our deepest sympathies to you all in the loss of your beloved Tracy. We were so sad to hear of her passing. We'll keep you in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless you all. Love Janet+Joe Collins, Apromollo Family and Hurley Family

Posted by Janet Collins - Randolph, MA - Family Friend   November 02, 2019

Cindy and Duke so sorry for your loss Gregory and I are so sorry for not being there for your daughters wake. Just looked at obituary tonight. I lovingly did her hair but didn't know she was your daughter our prayers and love to both of you

Posted by Pattie Rollins - Wareham, MA - Family Friend   October 29, 2019

To Duke and his wife and to Betty and her family my condolences to you all I am sorry to hear of your loss if there's anything I can do for either family please let me know and again I'm sorry to hear of the passing of your loved one

Posted by Charles Mayo - Stoughton, MA - Family Friend   October 25, 2019

I am so sad to hear about Tracey's passing. She was my elementary school bestie and I have such fond memories of our childhood together. May her memory be a blessing.

Posted by Robin Fradkin Matthews - Media, PA - Friend   October 25, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Posted by Bill McLaughlin - Stoughton, MA - friend   October 25, 2019

Jimmy we are so sorry for your loss, we would be there but now live in N.C. our thoughts and prayers are with you, god bless Love Steve and Jean

Posted by Jean Filolungo - Warrensville, NC - Friend   October 25, 2019

Betty, Steve and I are so very sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter in law! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time! May she rest in peace!

Posted by Linda and steve Panico - Ft. Myers, FL - Friend   October 24, 2019

Jimmy, Cole, Delaney and Cheyanne, I am so, so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. RIP Tracey

Posted by Judy Guilbault - Avon, MA - Friend   October 24, 2019

We're so very sorry to hear of your loss. Tracey was our neighbor for a few years and was a lovely young lady.

Posted by Cheryl & Ken Audlee - Stoughton, MA - Acquaintance   October 24, 2019

To the Wagner Family, We are so sorry for the loss of Tracey. We send our prayers of peace and consolation during the days ahead.
The Pane Family

Posted by Linda Pane - Stoughton, MA   October 24, 2019

I am very sorry for your family's loss. I grew up next door to Tracey's Grandparents in Stoughton. I have such wonderful memories with her on their farm riding and caring for the horses. She was always so generous and kind. May your beautiful memories with her bring you peace and comfort.

Posted by Andrea Hill (Moore) - Stow, MA - Friend   October 24, 2019

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Posted by Patsy & Bob Perry - West Bridgewater, MA - Friend   October 24, 2019

M heart is broke. I loved Tracey with all my heart. Her family, husband and children were her heart.

Posted by mary ann Berlo - Sharon, MA - Family   October 24, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss, I loved seeing Tracey every morning when Cole was in the daycare and running into her periodically over the years. She always had a smile and funny things to share about the kids and Jimmy. My heart is breaking for all of you.

Posted by Cindy McDonald - Stoughton, MA   October 24, 2019

To the Wagner family: Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this very difficult time. Rest in Sweetest Peace Tracey. Love, Mario and Julie Ramos

Posted by Mario & Julie Ramos - Stoughton, MA - Friend   October 24, 2019

To Wagner family please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. God bless you all

Posted by Anna Gambrazzio - Stoughton, MA - Family Friend   October 23, 2019

We are so very sorry to hear of your tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Posted by Richard and Kerrie Winsor - Greenland, NH   October 23, 2019

Jim, so sorry for your loss, bless the family

Posted by Paul Kelly - Stuart, FL - Friend   October 23, 2019

I send all my love to Tracey's family. I can't imagine your pain. I was completely devastated when my cousin Jodi called me Saturday. We all have so many incredible memories. She was a beautiful soul with the purest of hearts.
I'm so sorry that I can't be there to be there during this difficult time.
I found a pic of Tracey and my sister Christine from my going away party in 1992. I'll try to upload it. I was unable to a few moments ago.

Posted by Randie Zimmerman - Ormond by the Sea, FL   October 23, 2019


Jimmy and family. I am so sorry for the loss of Tracey. I've met her a few times and she was the nicest person. Remember all the good times you and your family had together. My heart goes out to you all.

Posted by Irene(Renee) Estella - Randolph, MA - Friend   October 23, 2019

We all have many years of beautiful memories of Tracey and Jodi at our home. She will be remembered by all of us. I reconnected with Tracy and we texted often.
May she live in our hearts forever.

Posted by Debbie Warshafsky - Stoughton, MA - Friend   October 23, 2019

Jimmy, Cole, Delaney and Cheyanne you are all in my prayers. Tracey was an amazing woman and will never be forgotten.

Posted by Heather McGinley - Stoughton, MA - Friend   October 23, 2019


I am so sorry for the loss of this beautiful woman...May God help console Tracey's husband and children with the beautiful thoughts and happy memories you all shared together.

Posted by Patricia Sutlive - Lawrenceville, GA - Family   October 23, 2019

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